Laying claims

Dylan spent the night again last night. I find myself growing attached to him more and more as the days go by. Right now, our relationship is just one of friends with benefits. We have a lot of fun together, in and out of the bedroom. We get along really well, have many common interests, and seem to be incredibly sexually compatible. I was texting with him this morning and we were talking about something that is going on and he made the comment that no one else can claim me. I asked him if he was laying a claim on me. His response was basically what would happen if I did? My response was that I am not sure just yet. Have not heard back from him since. He is either asleep or does not know how to respond yet.

Pet names

Everyone has them, right?I have not had one in a long time but just recently acquired a new one: Koala. The guy who gave it to me is a really sweet guy that I have been seeing for a short while now. It is interesting to have that again. I am supposed to be the chick who does not get emotionally involved. I find myself being drawn to this guy in a way that I have not been drawn to anyone in a while. He is kind and when he spends the night, it is refreshing to wake up and feel his arms around me. I asked him what he was getting out of all of this and why he continues to come by when I have told him that I am not looking for anything serious. His answer: He is happy with the way things are between us right now. It is nice having a guy who is not pushing for anything serious as some of the other guys that I have been out with have been. Right now, I just have too much other stuff going on to even consider getting serious with anyone right now. Most guys are not very understanding of the whole poly thing either. Anyone who wants to get serious with me has got to understand that first!

Fuck you too, buddy

OK - Picture this: It is Friday night and you are me. Young, vibrant, and totally hot. You already have a date. Now, imagine that you are a guy that I hooked up with a couple of months ago. Why would you message me asking if you can see me tonight? Did you honestly expect me to drop what I am doing and invite you over? Seriously, did you honestly not expect me to have plans already? This douchebag messages me and when I tell him I have plans gets pissy and tells me to fuck off. My response? Fuck you too buddy.