Laying claims

Dylan spent the night again last night. I find myself growing attached to him more and more as the days go by. Right now, our relationship is just one of friends with benefits. We have a lot of fun together, in and out of the bedroom. We get along really well, have many common interests, and seem to be incredibly sexually compatible. I was texting with him this morning and we were talking about something that is going on and he made the comment that no one else can claim me. I asked him if he was laying a claim on me. His response was basically what would happen if I did? My response was that I am not sure just yet. Have not heard back from him since. He is either asleep or does not know how to respond yet.

Pet names

Everyone has them, right?I have not had one in a long time but just recently acquired a new one: Koala. The guy who gave it to me is a really sweet guy that I have been seeing for a short while now. It is interesting to have that again. I am supposed to be the chick who does not get emotionally involved. I find myself being drawn to this guy in a way that I have not been drawn to anyone in a while. He is kind and when he spends the night, it is refreshing to wake up and feel his arms around me. I asked him what he was getting out of all of this and why he continues to come by when I have told him that I am not looking for anything serious. His answer: He is happy with the way things are between us right now. It is nice having a guy who is not pushing for anything serious as some of the other guys that I have been out with have been. Right now, I just have too much other stuff going on to even consider getting serious with anyone right now. Most guys are not very understanding of the whole poly thing either. Anyone who wants to get serious with me has got to understand that first!

Fuck you too, buddy

OK - Picture this: It is Friday night and you are me. Young, vibrant, and totally hot. You already have a date. Now, imagine that you are a guy that I hooked up with a couple of months ago. Why would you message me asking if you can see me tonight? Did you honestly expect me to drop what I am doing and invite you over? Seriously, did you honestly not expect me to have plans already? This douchebag messages me and when I tell him I have plans gets pissy and tells me to fuck off. My response? Fuck you too buddy.

Goth boy

Went out last week with a goth boy from another website. Very quiet and soft spoken, not typically the type of guy that I am drawn to. I had a pretty decent time with him and the awkward hug and kiss that he planted on me was interesting. I am considering seeing him again since he was a sweet guy but I am unsure right now. Hmm.....decisions.

Movie time!

Well, this has been a slow week for me since one of my best friends is in town visiting. It has somewhat put a damper on my sex life for the time being. I did, however, go to see Star Trek yesterday with a guy that I have been seeing for a while. Great movie plus good company always equals a good time. It has been a while since I have been on an actual date, with dinner and a movie so it was a nice change of pace. The odd thing is that the last time that I went to dinner and a movie was with my best friend/brother.

Yay for Mondays!

Got to see my ball player again. Man, I will be glad when my lip piercing heals. I am wondering what the spikes will feel like once I get them in. ^_^

Friday night

Went out with Brian on Friday. I got my lip pierced on the way home to get ready for the date. Looks awesome, BTW ^_^ We went to Starbucks for coffee and chilled there for a while. Totally geeked out for a bit and talked about all kinds of things: computers, games, and Linux, LOL. After that we went to Olive Garden and I tried some new soup. Very good. I am thinking that I might go out with this guy again but I am not sure yet.